2 Thousand Oaks Wedding Venues: Elegant & Effortless

2 Thousand Oaks Wedding Venues: Elegant & Effortless

Thousand Oaks wedding venues rarely get the credit they deserve. Sherwood Country Club sits behind some of the most private gates in Ventura County, and one wedding I officiated there changed the way I think about why people actually get married. Carol and Terry...
Camarillo Wedding Venues: More Choices, Better Weather

Camarillo Wedding Venues: More Choices, Better Weather

Camarillo wedding venues don’t usually make an entrance. This one did. The bride came around the back of the house on a Clydesdale. Not a horse dressed up to look big. An actual Clydesdale. The kind you picture pulling a beer wagon. Easily the largest animal...
Best Santa Barbara Wedding Venues: The Truth After 29 Years

Best Santa Barbara Wedding Venues: The Truth After 29 Years

Santa Barbara wedding venues look stunning in photos — but after 29 years and more than a thousand ceremonies across this county, I’ve been inside more of them than almost anyone else you’re going to talk to. And I mean that literally. I’m standing...
How to Elope in Malibu: A Wedding Officiant’s Complete Guide

How to Elope in Malibu: A Wedding Officiant’s Complete Guide

Why Couples Elope in Malibu I’ve been officiating elopements in Malibu for 29 years, and I can tell you without hesitation — there’s nowhere else like it. The coastline is breathtaking. The privacy is real. And the memories you create here last a lifetime. When...
How to Write Personal Wedding Vows: 5 Simple Steps That Work

How to Write Personal Wedding Vows: 5 Simple Steps That Work

“I’ve been helping couples write personal wedding vows in Southern California for 29 years. I’ve stood three feet away from over 1,000 couples during the most emotional moment of their lives — the moment they share their personal wedding vows....
How to Create a Meaningful Santa Barbara Wedding Ceremony

How to Create a Meaningful Santa Barbara Wedding Ceremony

A Local Wedding Officiant’s Perspective By Dean Merrill | Dean Merrill Weddings | 29 Years, 1,400+ Ceremonies I’ve been working as a Santa Barbara wedding officiant for nearly three decades now. And after more than 1,400 weddings, I can tell you something that might...
Elope at El Matador State Beach: 9 Things to Know First

Elope at El Matador State Beach: 9 Things to Know First

Hey, I’m Dean — and if you’re thinking about an El Matador State Beach wedding, you’re talking to exactly the right person. I’ve been officiating weddings all over Southern California for 29 years, and I’ve stood on that beach more times...